It turns out this week I never actually got beyond Monday at the nursery. My mum has been in hospital since the 6th September. She was 84 and had a fall. Although there were no fractures her time in hospital exposed other things going on.

Very sadly, Mummy died on Thursday 1st October from aspiration pneumonia. We got the call early on Tuesday morning to say that she was nearing the end of her beautiful life. We were so lucky to have had those last few days with her as she became more lucid and we took the opportunity to remind her of how much we loved her and she told us that she loved all of us too, very much ‘always, always’ she emphasised.

She quietly and peacefully, with grace and dignity, slipped out of this life. Mummy has found her angel wings and her soul is flying high. To say she will be missed is an understatement. From the very core of my being I will miss her. But I will take what she taught and what she stood for and do the best I can to continue to emulate her strong values.

She taught kindness, compassion and love.

Since her time in hospital and her passing, my dad, my brother and myself have been inundated with messages from all over. There have been close family, extended family, friends and even those that she simply brushed contact with who have all called and paid tributes to the person that she was. And in all of them there has been the constant themes on what a kind, giving, caring and loving person she was. All of them. People remember her with deep rooted affection because of those traits. She did not have one single bad cell in her body.

And she was smart! So smart that she could intuit very quickly. It was a smartness that was driven not just by logic but also empathy and concern. She had the ability to read people. That’s probably one of the reasons why she enjoyed the company of all the children she ever encountered. She ensured that she played, spent time and nurtured every one of them  always making sure she had chocolates at the ready in her bag!  She loved her grandchildren with a passion.
 
Children are open books and they will give of their time generously offering love and engaging very freely; those qualities were embedded in Mummy and it made everyone love her and want to spend time with her and remember her. She was loved so much because of her nature. She gave love and offered counsel and she would seek it out, she always wanted to help. ‘Fawzia come over and we can have a chat.’ She always seemed to know when something was up, there was no hiding anything from her.

So! Here’s to my beautiful angel Mummy. I am so grateful that I could call you mine and for everything that you did and the person you were.

And here’s to all those values that you embodied. The world is distinctly less bright for those you have left behind but we will be your standard bearers. I really look forward to being reunited with you again one day in the future.

Here are some pictures I managed to take on Monday! Also one of Mummy who is the driving force of the values embedded in the nursery. She has an impact and legacy  on all our lives.

This week has reminded me a bit of childbirth for two reasons. First: the process of childbirth is usually a turbulent one although it is supremely rewarding. Second: and this is more related to the ‘due date’; you make all these lovely cosy rose-tinted plans about giving birth and keeping an eye on your due-date and both can easily fly out of the window when reality takes over!
 
So, let’s explain the turbulence! The start of every year is always the biggest intake of children and this is usually a smoothish(!) process. Yes, there are always some initial tears in the first few days but this year has felt different. My belief is that because of the lockdown and continuing into winter with uncertainty, the start back to ‘normal’ has been harder. Thinking this through, it really should not be surprising as our little children have spent far more time with their parents and families in their homes than they would ordinarily have done. There has been no school, play groups, swimming, playgrounds as well as other extra-curricular activities. But there has been a safeness and security in staying at home and bunkering down. Naturally it makes perfect sense that in coming out of our respective homes to resume normal life there has been a level of anxiety attached. Add social distancing and other measures and restrictions into the mix, and all in all it has made the start of term more turbulent than in normal times.
 
So the dropping off in the school garden has been different. For some several few the goodbyes have been hard all round with both children and parents feeling the weight. That said there have been many who have been more than happy to get back to daily routines, and we have observed children getting stuck into nursery, and parents happily waving them off. Thus, it has been curious and interesting in making these observations as these first few weeks progressed. The good news is that we are nearly there! And that is thanks to the will and care of everyone involved. Hence just like childbirth we are beginning to experience the rewards of time.
 
And now to explain the ‘due-date’ analogy…
I had made some lovely plans to bring out our continents puzzle and begin to label the different continents. This followed on from our land, water and air lesson last week. However, with all the differing arrangements as settling all the children in has taken precedence, our in-depth look ended up being more a quick look. And thus the best laid plans and all that!
 
The children enjoyed looking at the Continents puzzle, and we had some lovely moments when we were recalling the names. I held up Europe and one girl said it was called ‘Syrup’. Then when we looked at Africa one child said they thought it was cold in Africa. I asked why. And he replied ‘because it’s green and it’s green here and it’s cold.’ I thought that was a timely moment to introduce the concept of the Equator.:-)

Here is another little photo selection of what we have got up to this past week. Enjoy!

Last week we resumed a bit of normality. It seems like we took another inch towards it although I am highly aware that this may be a false sense of reality. We are, after all, only one positive test away from our nursery bubble closing for 2 weeks. Fingers crossed though that we can ride this wave and see that off.

It was a heartening experience seeing all the children return, both old and new. Everyone by now is used to queuing, to keeping a mask at the ready, handwashing and even having their temperatures taken. Which was great as, as it turns out, this is precisely what was needed to bring the children into the nursery garden.

And after a week of refamiliarizing ourselves with some of the old routines, and adapting to the new, we were able to make some headway into our topic for this term – Migration!

We have begun with the basics, or as Julie Andrews would sing, “Let’s start at the very beginning...” and she is right; it is a very good place to start.

The children were shown the land and water globe and were great at identifying what it was called. They labelled it ‘a planet’, ‘the world’ and also ‘Earth’. We spoke about how land, water and air are vital to our planet and life on earth. One child pointed out that they bring their own water bottles into nursery every day. I asked if they are reminded to drink water by their parents. They all emphatically shook their heads and in unison told me ‘no, no, no!’ to which I then asked them if they could remind me, seeing as they were expert water drinkers.

We looked at our ‘land’ ‘water’ and ‘air’ jars and matched some picture cards to each jar. There were some interesting and imaginative ideas and cute conversations. ‘Where does the train go? Land, air or water?’ One child quickly replied ‘In the air!’ The others were baffled. Some looked confused and others thought it was funny. I smiled, ‘Fantastic! So if I catch a train to London, will it fly there?’ and ‘That means if we look carefully we can see train tracks in the sky!’ There were guffaws, cries of ‘no’ and fun was had by all. We clearly were all enjoying the joke which led to other deliberately wrong answers when we explored the difficulties of sea turtles living on land, people living in the sea (we would need gills and fins) and hot air balloons flying in water.

Through our exploration and reasoning, and through our intentional mistakes we became drawn to the right answer. It was a lovely little exercise in sharing ideas and thoughts.

Here follows a little selection of pictures from the week. Enjoy!

We have had a wonderful couple of weeks starting to look at the Digestive system. So here I am going to catch up on myself by rolling two weeks into one blog. Apologies that this will be a longer one than you are used to. 

As time moves, and lockdown continues, we are gradually adapting and becoming more experienced at presenting our online circles in a way that engages the children fully by getting them involved and piquing their desire to learn and absorb. It has been very rewarding to be part of this different journey with all of them online.

In the nursery the children are happy to be observers of an activity, dipping in to give hands-on help, answer questions and then subsequently have a go by at that same activity after circle as part of the classroom work cycle. Observation and interaction are important during the circle times as it enables the imagination to spark, questions to be answered and allows for our lovely children to become critical thinkers. In doing so they learn and also increase their understanding through a process of addressing concrete concepts, breaking them down, thinking of answers to questions and also asking questions themselves. Above all what continues to hold true, whether online or present together, is engagement and practical involvement are the keys to happy learning! 

So onto the Digestive System. This was particularly chosen to be able to replicate at home from gathering simple materials found around the house.

In the first week I marked up a T-shirt drawing the digestive system onto it. My 15 year old daughter then kindly offered to paint it and label it and also added a finishing touch which went down well with all of us who never grow out of toilet humour!

Each morning I wear the T-shirt each as Tim and I greet the children, say our ‘Good Morning!’ and then begin circle time. We started the digestive system topic with looking at the T-shirt and considering an overview of the journey of food through the body and also asked the significant question ‘why is food so important?’ Here we had help from Mummy and Daddy Pig (of Peppa Pig’s family’). Our same 15 year old daughter had kept all her Peppa Pig toys and the remote control car has come in very handy for this one. The children were able to liken the petrol used to make the car drive to food giving us energy. They were particularly delighted when I used my banana petrol pump to fill the car with fuel. ‘Glug, glug, glug’ was the sound I made as the banana pump filled up the car with petrol. And imagine their delight when the car drove off! It was great seeing their faces enjoy the car speed off and delight in the equally bad driving (as Tim, out of sight of the screen, struggled to get to grips with the steering!). I asked the children if Daddy Pig needed driving lessons and all the children were unmuted and shouted ‘Yes!’.

The children were easily able to liken the car’s petrol to the food that we eat. We agreed food gives us energy to breathe (we took some deep breaths together), to move (we shook our hands, blinked our eyes, jumped up and down) and grow. I was really thrilled to see some of the children had made their own digestive system T-shirts and are really embracing and enjoying their home learning! 

This last week has seen the children move on into considering what happens in the mouth. It has been great as we have been really able to step up the involvement at home. At this point a big thank you to all the lovely parents who have helped to make this happen. I tasked all the children if they were able to bring to circle a banana (or other soft food) a blunt knife (suitable for children), a masher, a spoon and some water. I had some extra bits but the children were asked to bring those basics. And they did with enthusiasm and joy! It has been fantastic as this week we have simulated the start of digestion the mouth!  We considered that the three important components in the mouth to break down food are the teeth, the tongue and saliva. The children looked onscreen at our model of the teeth and identified that the front teeth (incisors) were sharp like our knives and these are used to bite food. So we all sliced our bananas using our knives. The teeth further back were flat (molars) and these are used for chewing and mashing up food. So we all mashed up our bananas with the masher. The tongue was used to move food around the mouth. So we all used our spoons to stir the banana. And finally we needed saliva to make the food wet to help break it down even more making it soft and slippery to slide down our oesophagus. So the children and I all poured water for saliva (I added oil for mucus too) onto our bananas. From that point I looked up and all the children were busy cutting, mashing, stirring, and adding water. And the lovely thing was they all held their food ‘bolus’ up to their screens to show their results. I provided a running commentary for each of the children on the state of their boluses and what stage of preparation they were at as some were taking time over slicing their banana, some were racing ahead and busy with the mashing and others had really gone to town with plenty of saliva!

Really good fun and one mum posted a picture of the banana cake she made after our united demonstration of what happens to food in the mouth! 

So plenty of fun to be had, lots of learning absorbed and a thriving community.  All is well. :-) 

As lockdown perseveres and we continue to do online sessions the lessons learned are mind-blowing. This really is with reference to a deeper understanding of the human spirit and what matters the most; I speak of our compassion, our resilience, our values and our enduring bonds. 

I am aware that I have skipped a few blog posts. There has been a change of focus and a shifting of routines which has made the world turn slightly upside down and subsequently my routine of writing the blog has been sidelined by sharing news with the parents and posting on our private Albany Montessori at Home Facebook page. 

The absence is significant because in the midst of it all there was a wonderful surprise which needs a big mention. In  the second week of term whilst Tim and I were doing our online circle, the doorbell rang and we were slightly distracted. I was mid flow in circle, talking about our Stone Age people and the evolution of humans from then to now, and Tim got up and came back with a hamper and a card. I glanced at the top of the card and out of the corner of my eye there were all the children smiling up at us. I caught Tim’s eye and told him, ‘I can’t do this right now – let’s do this at the end of the session.’  So that’s what we did. 
At the end of the session we felt the presence of our wonderful nursery community even more, all watching us from their homes. Tim started by saying that most of you might have heard the door bell during the session. He continued that that was unusual as we had not been expecting anything, and when he had opened the door there was a hamper at the door step as well as two boxes of wine. He began by thanking everyone, by going through the contents of the hamper, by saying it would be so lovely if everyone could come over and share. And actually we were both so choked up that not many words flowed other than thank you, we miss you and what a wonderful surprise. There were tears from us and from the parents. Even now writing this two weeks later it make me well up. 

This is what I wrote to the parents later that day: 

In moments like today my brain becomes overloaded, my heart bursts and I become speechless. Luckily Tim’s brain doesn’t shut down for as long as mine! He has already eloquently summed up our feelings and thoughts beneath the video and really I just want to corroborate and add some words of my own.

Sometimes there should be more words than ‘thank you’ to express the depth of feelings that are felt; like a scale of thank yous. If this was the case our thank you today would be off that scale. 
Your combined thoughtfulness, care and love is amazing. We value the daily circles so much for the opportunity to see you all and continue to be a part of each other's lives. Thank you for taking the time to be there too and now giving us one of the most thoughtful gifts that we have ever received. We are overwhelmed by your kindness and feel very blessed to be part of a such a caring, joyful and united community. So from the absolute deepest, soulful and love-filled bottom of our hearts an enormous (bigger than Argentinosaurus!) THANK YOU with massive amounts of love. 
Missing you all hugely. Coming  back together is going to be, without a shadow of a doubt, the best thing in the world. ❤️❤️❤️

The mind-blowing lessons are all and everything to do with experiencing what being part of a united and caring community feels like. That we all share caring values, that we support one another and that we continue to be there for each other. Since then I have spoken to parents who tell me that the online circle is the best part of the day. I whole heartedly agree. It fills the soul to its brim and overflows with love, laughter and joy. And the best thing is we repeat it all over and over again seeing each other, touching base and then signing off till the next day. And our goodbye is singing  ‘The more we get together the happier we’ll be.’ So much truth in such a simple song. 

As we head into the start of the new term it is a very different experience to the way in which we usually get the cogs turning. Normally after the Easter holidays I heave two sighs: one as an exhale to acknowledge the coming to an end of a break which has allowed for a time of relaxation, and the second as one of braced relief that normality will resume and daily life will go back to a familiar rhythm.  
How far from that point we are now as we enter into a virtual next term. 

One month ago life changed beyond recognition. We entered a brave new world where we have mostly all been isolating; the antithesis of our needs as social beings. To say it has been hard has its misrepresentations as it has pulled us together which has highlighted the positive. 

There been a shifting of creativity into delivering circle online which has been imaginative, although not without its challenges! We have continued to meet as a nursery community on a daily basis interacting as we talk through a topic; the last few weeks we have covered the meteorite hitting the earth, changing the climate and wiping out the dinosaurs. We then went onto consider the survival of mammals and the evolution of man from apes. Our children have all named the first human as ‘homohabilus’ and this week we have been learning about life in the Stone Age. It has been wholesome and delightful to see that despite the stifled dimensions of interacting online, the children are enjoying and they are learning. 
We have also joined our children online to do music sessions, which have been very good fun although we have been waking our teenage children and neighbours in the process! The children made requests for their favourite songs and we have  immediately responded. 

However it has equally been a struggle. We started off with most of the nursery children joining us online but quite a few are, understandably, finding it upsetting to reconcile the disconnect between seeing us and all their friends on the screen and not being able to see us in person. We have felt the same. After the sessions Tim and I have breathed out trying to be brave and strong but with tears in our eyes. There is a sense of loss. We are missing all the people we spend our daily lives with: the children, the parents and our wonderful colleagues who share our day to day routines. 

So as we enter into a new term with more uncertainty, the peculiar circumstances we are in are felt very strongly.  But a new normality of online circles and posts on the newly created group page will continue. It has been wonderful to see parents posting as well with their ideas and news. 

This leads to the final message of this blog today: let’s look to the light at the end of the tunnel. There will be days which are harder than others but we will see it through and be back together again soon. And when that day comes it will be uplifting with tears of joy! I for one can’t wait!

Meanwhile we will see everyone for online circle on Monday morning! It is the best way to start the day! 

As I write this latest blog it seems the world has turned upside down even more. At the start of this week our nursery was about three quarters full and, as the virus continued to impact the country, this gradually diminished on a downward path until by the end of the week there were only about 7 children. We totally understood and are supportive of the decisions parents and families have taken.

As a nursery we function as a community and the main thing is that we look after each other and support one another with understanding, compassion and love. This has been made abundantly clear as there have been many concerned conversations with parents and staff this week on what the future holds. All of our parents and staff have been massively supportive, concerned, kind and caring and it has been an emotional week.

So a message to the nursery community:

We remain here for our all of you. Although we will not all be seeing each other as we usually do we will be going online in a more personal way. So we will keep our strong and gorgeous community together, in touch and up to date with one another. It means that when we finally get back together it will not feel as if we have been apart from one another for very long. :-) And there will be a time in the not too distant future when this will happen in real life!

This also means that as a technophobe I will be forced into coming to terms with digital literacy! Yikes!

There have been lovely moments this week as we still had fun and enjoyed ourselves.

Here are some highlights.

It was very lovely when one of our alumni children returned to join us for an afternoon. That felt very special and he just slotted right back in. It was great to witness that other than gaining several inches in height, his personality and good nature had not changed; he was the same – sociable, good fun, funny and loud child that we had in nursery a few years ago. There was a lovely familiarity. When he took the role of the wolf in ‘What’s the time Mr Wolf?’ and all the children asked him the all important question he replied ‘Ten past two.’! The children were slightly blindsided by how many steps they should take!

Another highlight.
We looked at the different types of dinosaurs and identified them as herbivores and carnivores and ourselves as omnivores. It was very lovely when just the following day the children were naturally talking about the dinosaurs using the different terminology, one boy said, ‘I am an omnivore! because I like plants and meat’. And another girl shook her head and said ‘if I were a dinosaur I would not be a good herbivore as I only eat meat.’ So carnivore all the way then!

We passed a Megladon tooth in circle and one of the children wisely told me, ‘that’s a fossil.’ Perfect! 

Finally! Archie the dog joined us for rugby on Friday afternoon. The children loved that although he had to be kept away from pinching  their balls! 

Stay safe, be healthy and look forward to the hugs in the not too distant future!

Last Thursday 5th March we celebrated World Book Day in fun and style. There was an adorable array of costumes, a healthy range of books and we even managed to raise some money for Book Aid International. 
In thinking about this week’s blog it seems the natural thing to do is to explore the benefit of books. However I wrote about that recently – well the power of stories – and I feel it would be wrong to repeat myself so soon. So instead I thought that another appropriate idea would be to actually investigate World Book Day and consider its origins and impact.

Here goes! Did you know that the idea for World Book Day has been nicked from a tradition which has been going since 23rd April 1923 in Catalonia? This was to celebrate the life of their local hero and best selling author Miguel de Cervantes who wrote Don Quixote. In Catalonia there began a tradition of celebrating books and gifting them to each other in memory of Cervantes. Fast forward 72 years to 1995 and the first official World Book Day took place. It has since been designated by UNESCO (United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization) as a world wide celebration of books.
 
There is a link with World Book Day to Cervantes’ Don Quixote. Don Quixote is a man who has romantic ideas about chivalry but is delusional. His attempts to be a hero do not come to anything as he chased unrealistic dreams with no base in reality - hence the phrase ‘tilting at windmills’.

With regard to World Book Day there is a poignancy as the purpose of World Book Day is to get all children across the world to embrace books to read, enjoy and to learn so serving to fulfil the educational commitment set out in the 1989 UN Convention on The Rights of the Child. Is this ‘tilting at windmills?’ Let’s look at the impact.

Lifted straight from the World Book Day website...

Research found that children who participate in World Book Day activities are more engaged in reading and books than those who don’t.

• Nearly 3 in 5 felt that they read more books
• Nearly half say they buy more books
• Over 2 in 5 borrow and share more books
• A third also read more with their parents due to taking part in World Book Day, with half of those believing they subsequently read more independently (The National Literacy Trust’s Annual Literacy Survey, 2019)
• 1 in 4 pupils (25.2%) say that the book they ‘bought’ with their 2016 World Book Day book token was their first book of their own.
• Amongst children receiving free school meals, this number increased to 3 in 10 (32.9%; National Literacy Trust, 2017)
• Lower income families are likely to discover books through World Book Day (Nielsen, 2018)

So there you have it! World Book Day does not ‘tilt at windmills’. It is celebrated in 100 countries and the day clearly bears fruit. This is not to say that it has changed the lives of every single child in the world but for just 23 years of service it’s pretty awesome.

After a little break at half term we have resumed for the next instalment! And that part has been to develop our little song for the planets.

It is one of those joyful experiences when learning takes on a life of its own – when knowledge is learned, and then developed and applied.

The children had really enjoyed singing ‘Uranus on the bus spins on its side, on its side, on its side. Uranus on the bus spins on its side all day long!’

It naturally followed then that it was only fair to the other planets to include them in the song too.
So this week’s blog post is our very own song – ‘The planets on the bus’! (not surprisingly sung to the same tune as the ‘Wheels on the Bus’).

I will say now that contextual knowledge from the children has been applied. We also add in actions which is great fun – I like pretending to duck from the meteorites.

The sun on the bus shines like a star,  like a star, like a star. The sun on the bus shines like a star all day long.

Mercury on the bus you have to duck, have to duck, have to duck. Mercury on the bus you have to duck all day long.

Venus on the bus is very hot, very hot, very hot. Venus on the bus is very hot all day long.

Earth on the bus we drink and breathe, drink and breathe, drink and breathe. Earth on the bus we drink and breathe all day long.

Jupiter on the bus has lightning storms, lightning storm, lightning storm. Jupiter on the bus has lightning storms all day long.

Saturn on the bus has rings of ice, rings of ice, rings of ice. Saturn on the bus has rings of ice all day long.

Uranus on the bus spins on its side, on its side, on its side. Uranus on the bus spins on its side all day long.

Neptune on the bus is very cold, very cold very cold. Neptune on the bus is very cold all day long.

And that’s all folks! For the planets that is. Although we will be singing that with wonderful abandon at our end of term Singing Circle!  Hooray hooray!

In other news this week we eagerly and happily celebrated Shrove Tuesday by emptying our larders and making pancakes. Yum yum and yum. Even better when we ate the pancakes for our snack. Demolished!