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Let’s all be utopian thinkers!

16/1/2022

First of all Happy New Year to everyone out there! As we make new years resolutions and think of ways in which we can enrich our lives I have one to ponder on, namely utopian thinking.

I make no bones about the fact that this is a curious one. However, the other day I was, driven by my daughter, to read about utopian thinking, and not only was it insightful but it did get me thinking that utopian thinking is healthy.

The idea of utopia stems from Thomas More’s book ‘Utopia’ in which there is a society which live in harmony, and utopian thinking is the mindset in which we reflect on society and look to change it to an ideal version where everyone and everything benefits. This means that we are continuously evolving in our thoughts and are prepared to ditch certain ideas in the process.

As I read about utopian society where everyone is equal, where everyone works towards the common good, where jobs and responsibilities are managed by the whole community fairly and there is equal status and recognition amongst them, it got me thinking about the nursery class and our micro community.

Thomas More would be pleased with an eye-view into the nursery as the virtues of utopia are lived and practiced by the children.

Their world view is not clouded by the lived experience of the big wide world. It is fresh, open, honest, kind, good fun and abundantly wholesome. Problems have solutions and can be worked out amongst themselves, and if not they may seek the help of adults in the nursery. There is a willingness to embrace and adapt and keep it fresh and move on with creativity and imaginative thinking which embodies utopian thinking.

I was reading a lovely book about dinosaurs with the children, and it was a wonderful experience into the mindset of utopian thinking which is not to be constrained by conventional thinking. As we flicked through the pages of the book the children began to speculate the reasons for the different features of the different dinosaurs. There was one who had a red plate on its head – the book said that it was likely that the red plate was a decorative piece to attract a mate. When I told the children that it was to make that dinosaur attractive, one of the children laughed and told me that the red plate was a store of energy like walking around with a volcano on your head. And then we looked at a prehistoric squid called a cephalopod and observed its tentacles. I said that they squirted ink when they felt they were in danger, and one child suggested that actually they also squirted their ink as they liked to swim through it as smelled so nice, 'a bit like a bath bomb.’ Brilliant!

It all made me think that, in the presence of children, utopian thinking is always abundant.

Plodding Onwards to Bethlehem

5/12/2021

This time of year the highlight is always the Nativity.

What is so lovely is the journey from start to finish. We begin after the half term and it is very early days and December seems quite distant. It seems almost wrong to be wishing the time away singing We wish you a merry Christmas at the beginning of November.

Indeed the journey we all take can be likened to the famous one when Mary, Joseph, and the donkey travelled towards Bethlehem. One step after another they got there.

When we start the children are not familiar with the story or the songs and gradually, as time goes on, they learn the story. First we read the story of the first Christmas and then the following week we brought a nativity set into circle and told the story using the little wooden figures. The children then enjoyed playing and doing their own versions of the story in the classroom. At one point we even had flying donkeys and flying kings!

The children, through repetition, soon got to know the whole sequence of events. During this time, we interjected the story with songs which will eventually be in our play. Gradually we have begun to see how the nativity is starting to take shape. We are definitely en route to Bethlehem! Two more weeks to go...

After having sung the songs for a few weeks the children are now confident, enjoying their singing and getting stuck in. So I’m going to leave you with two little excerpts of two of the songs in our play:

Learning Using Hands

30/11/2021

I have been recently reading one of Maria Montessori’s London lectures (from 1946) entitled Spontaneous Activity. It’s an interesting read in which she makes it clear that children have an innate compulsion to learn and be able to do things for themselves. She observed that this is exemplified in all sorts of curious behaviours; the first of these behaviours is achieved with the hands. Montessori said, ’We should remember that the child used and exercised his hands before he began to use his feet.’ Consequently we need to give little hands opportunities to learn.

In the Montessori pedagogy practical life activities have a key place in the classroom. They enable the hands to become skilful and dextrous and so enable the child to develop their independence. This week, after reading the lecture, I watched the children more intently at work on the practical life actives; how they used their hands in pouring, transferring, manipulating tools on the tool block, threading, peeling garlic and using the garlic press and, in baking how they chopped up mushrooms for the pizzas they were making. Working on these activities it is lovely, and affirming, to see that the children are clearly focused, engaged and intent on completing their task, and what is more they take pride in their success.
As Montessori stated, ’the greater the effort, the greater is the children’s pleasure.’

Montessori gave these lectures 75 years ago at the tail end of her work in education. It is a testament to her knowledge, that in spite of the many changes that society has undergone, her insights in child development still hold relevance today. So let’s work those hands!

The Value of Together

22/11/2021

In the nursery the other day I watched as these three ended up creating their very own masterpiece.

The first child,(let’s call her A) came to the easel, set the paper up and began to make a circle of big red splodges. Curious as to what she was painting, the others (let’s call them B and C) observed, hovered for a little bit, looked at the art in progress, and then joined in; B began to enclose the red splodges with a lovely thick blue circle. This inspired A to fill in the middle of the red splodge ring with green which caused C to pick up a paintbrush and begin to fill in the background with the same green. What was lovely was how A welcomed both B and C to add to the painting and how subsequently they were all laughing, smiling and were absolutely delighted with the outcome of their creative process and their collaboration.

It was genuinely very lovely to see the beauty of what can happen when people come together. To sum up: 'Individually we are one drop; but together we are an ocean.’ as Ryunosoke Satoro the Japanese poet observed.

Autumn 2021

16/11/2021

It has been well over a year since my last blog. I hit pause for a while whilst I adjusted to a world without my mum. Now is the time to hit play again and to re-start these posts. So! What better starting point than breathing in the beauty that Autumn graciously brings?!

We are so lucky that we are situated on the edge of a park and are able to embrace all the beauty, colours, changing scenary, dew-dropped mornings and birdsong that the season bestows on our senses. Being in such close proximity to daily changes and earth’s continuing cycle is a privilege.

One of our recent favourite things to do is playing and being creative with leaves, twigs and other little nature finds. When I was little, I recall the deep satisfaction in wading through thick piles of leaves, enjoying the rustling sound and also making ginormous enormous leaf piles and bundling into them. Simple pleasures which our children all loved to do too. ‘Again!’ ‘Again!’ came the cries of delight.

A personal tribute to my mummy, Fatima Topan: the driver of our values.

3/10/2020

It turns out this week I never actually got beyond Monday at the nursery. My mum has been in hospital since the 6th September. She was 84 and had a fall. Although there were no fractures her time in hospital exposed other things going on.

Very sadly, Mummy died on Thursday 1st October from aspiration pneumonia. We got the call early on Tuesday morning to say that she was nearing the end of her beautiful life. We were so lucky to have had those last few days with her as she became more lucid and we took the opportunity to remind her of how much we loved her and she told us that she loved all of us too, very much ‘always, always’ she emphasised.

She quietly and peacefully, with grace and dignity, slipped out of this life. Mummy has found her angel wings and her soul is flying high. To say she will be missed is an understatement. From the very core of my being I will miss her. But I will take what she taught and what she stood for and do the best I can to continue to emulate her strong values.

She taught kindness, compassion and love.

Since her time in hospital and her passing, my dad, my brother and myself have been inundated with messages from all over. There have been close family, extended family, friends and even those that she simply brushed contact with who have all called and paid tributes to the person that she was. And in all of them there has been the constant themes on what a kind, giving, caring and loving person she was. All of them. People remember her with deep rooted affection because of those traits. She did not have one single bad cell in her body.

And she was smart! So smart that she could intuit very quickly. It was a smartness that was driven not just by logic but also empathy and concern. She had the ability to read people. That’s probably one of the reasons why she enjoyed the company of all the children she ever encountered. She ensured that she played, spent time and nurtured every one of them always making sure she had chocolates at the ready in her bag! She loved her grandchildren with a passion.

Children are open books and they will give of their time generously offering love and engaging very freely; those qualities were embedded in Mummy and it made everyone love her and want to spend time with her and remember her. She was loved so much because of her nature. She gave love and offered counsel and she would seek it out, she always wanted to help. ‘Fawzia come over and we can have a chat.’ She always seemed to know when something was up, there was no hiding anything from her.

So! Here’s to my beautiful angel Mummy. I am so grateful that I could call you mine and for everything that you did and the person you were.

And here’s to all those values that you embodied. The world is distinctly less bright for those you have left behind but we will be your standard bearers. I really look forward to being reunited with you again one day in the future.

Here are some pictures I managed to take on Monday! Also one of Mummy who is the driving force of the values embedded in the nursery. She has an impact and legacy on all our lives.

Searching for the Continents!

27/9/2020

This week has reminded me a bit of childbirth for two reasons. First: the process of childbirth is usually a turbulent one although it is supremely rewarding. Second: and this is more related to the ‘due date’; you make all these lovely cosy rose-tinted plans about giving birth and keeping an eye on your due-date and both can easily fly out of the window when reality takes over!

So, let’s explain the turbulence! The start of every year is always the biggest intake of children and this is usually a smoothish(!) process. Yes, there are always some initial tears in the first few days but this year has felt different. My belief is that because of the lockdown and continuing into winter with uncertainty, the start back to ‘normal’ has been harder. Thinking this through, it really should not be surprising as our little children have spent far more time with their parents and families in their homes than they would ordinarily have done. There has been no school, play groups, swimming, playgrounds as well as other extra-curricular activities. But there has been a safeness and security in staying at home and bunkering down. Naturally it makes perfect sense that in coming out of our respective homes to resume normal life there has been a level of anxiety attached. Add social distancing and other measures and restrictions into the mix, and all in all it has made the start of term more turbulent than in normal times.

So the dropping off in the school garden has been different. For some several few the goodbyes have been hard all round with both children and parents feeling the weight. That said there have been many who have been more than happy to get back to daily routines, and we have observed children getting stuck into nursery, and parents happily waving them off. Thus, it has been curious and interesting in making these observations as these first few weeks progressed. The good news is that we are nearly there! And that is thanks to the will and care of everyone involved. Hence just like childbirth we are beginning to experience the rewards of time.

And now to explain the ‘due-date’ analogy…
I had made some lovely plans to bring out our continents puzzle and begin to label the different continents. This followed on from our land, water and air lesson last week. However, with all the differing arrangements as settling all the children in has taken precedence, our in-depth look ended up being more a quick look. And thus the best laid plans and all that!

The children enjoyed looking at the Continents puzzle, and we had some lovely moments when we were recalling the names. I held up Europe and one girl said it was called ‘Syrup’. Then when we looked at Africa one child said they thought it was cold in Africa. I asked why. And he replied ‘because it’s green and it’s green here and it’s cold.’ I thought that was a timely moment to introduce the concept of the Equator.:-)

Here is another little photo selection of what we have got up to this past week. Enjoy!